Priorities on Purpose: Get Out of Survival Mode, Eliminate Distractions, Find Your Focus, and Grow With Jesus

24\\ Are you sabotaging your success? Three things to stop doing immediately if you want to grow your audience, income and influence to maximize your opportunities.

Stop Sabotaging Your Business: Top Mistakes to Avoid
 
In this episode of Priorities on Purpose, host Melissa Batt helps overwhelmed direct sellers and new life coaches understand the often-overlooked importance of presenting themselves professionally in order to grow their income, audience, and influence without sacrificing their mental health.
 
 
Top Takeaways: 
 
Maximize your opportunities by showing up in person and online as your best self. 
 
Elevate your professional appearance if possible and clarify your message to attract clients more effectively.
 
Magnify your presence for better audience engagement and deeper connections.
 
Connect with your loyal lifers and become super clear in your message and purpose. 
 
Focus on value-driven connections and coaching without allowing your lack (scarcity) mindset to get in the way of your serving at your highest level.
 
Embrace patience, stay humble, and keep things simple. Don't fall for all the gimmicks. Shortcuts will not give you sustainability. 
 
Reflect on your online presence, including your appearance in photos and videos, to ensure you are presenting yourself professionally and confidently.
 
Focus on improving your social media captions to make them more engaging and informative, encouraging users to stop scrolling and pay attention to your content.
 
Show up consistently online and in person, striving to be presentable and confident in all interactions but also recognize where you are. Showing up matters most. 
 
Be intentional in your actions, recognizing that if you want people to pay you for your services, you must provide value and build trust.
 
Always give ten times the value of what you want people to pay for your services or products.
 
Avoid rushing the process of building your business and instead focus on steady growth and progress.
 
Be patient with yourself and your business growth, understanding that success often takes time and dedication.
 
Invest time and energy into developing a strong message and brand identity for your business.
 
Consider seeking feedback and guidance from a mentor or coach to help you improve and grow your business.
 
Remember your journey is unique, and comparing your progress to others can be unproductive and discouraging. Focus on your own growth and success.
 
 
The next Breakthrough Challenge will be starting soon. Get ready to make progress toward those God-sized dreams. Want to start a podcast? Build a nonprofit? Maybe you have been wanting to launch your own coaching business to help those who are going through similar things you have gone through. Your goals can be as simple as cutting through the noise and finding time for the main priorities, building your audience, or improving relationships. I've coached dozens of clients through the last 3 rounds of the challenge and watched them achieve so much more than they ever thought possible. I've helped them and I can confidently say I can help you, too! Sign up for the free workshop to learn more! 
 
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https://www.melissabatt.com/12-weeks-to-success
 
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23\\ Something happened at church tonight and I must share it with you!

Is God calling you to go to the altar? What would it look like if the church was full of hungry people who want to be in the presence of God and no longer care what people think? Stop second-guessing yourself. Be bold. Recognize the opportunity to support someone else's faith and go first.
Get out of your seat and take the steps forward. If Jesus is willing to die on the cross for us, can't we surrender our pride and go to the altar? Intercede for others. Pray for yourself. Praise Him for what He has already done in your life. Consider it an act of obedience because you know God is moving and doing a new thing. 
 
I shared this message live at midnight after tonight's Good Friday worship service at my church here in Kentucky.  Because Easter is so close, I wanted to upload this message here as quickly as possible in hopes some of you will be more aware this Sunday. This episode is raw & real and is unedited with me sharing my heart and what I know God has been telling me over the last couple of years. It's about going first. 
It's about not staying in your seat but going to the altar when you feel the prompting from Holy Spirit. 
It's about leaving your comfort zone and not allowing the spirit of resistance to stunt your growth. P.S. If we want revival, we must allow ourselves to linger in His presence and lay down our pride, motives, and agendas. 
 
P.S.S. Have you been putting off getting back into the church? Or maybe you haven't yet found a home church or you are overwhelmed with the idea of even looking for a good church. God is doing a new thing and He needs you to show up for His people. Be on the lookout for another podcast soon on how to find a church, what to look for, and how to feel comfortable walking in the doors before you even leave your house. And, no, I'm not talking about watching church online through a live stream or Youtube Channel.  
 
The next Breakthrough Challenge will be starting soon. Sign up now so you will be ready to go! Your goals can be as simple as going back to church, reading your bible, or meeting new people through a bible study. Several of our current participants have similar goals and will tell you it is possible! I'd love to help you. And, of course, if you have a business or other life goal, we can do that too! 
 
Get on the waitlist:
https://www.melissabatt.com/12-weeks-to-success
 
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22\\ Unlocking Your God-Sized Dreams: Stepping into Your Purpose and Making Money

 
Despite my fears, I trusted God and surrendered my struggles and comfort to walk out this journey of coaching.  Every day I get to wake up and do what I didn't even know was possible. I had no clue I could be paid to do life coaching. I truly thought my calling was to show up as the best top leader in my direct sales/network marketing business and I was super satisfied with it. However, sometimes God wants us to think bigger, step out of our comfort zone, and stop putting Him in a box. 
 
Today, I'm no longer in direct sales but instead, I have the opportunity to coach women (inside and outside of the network marketing industry) to live a fulfilled purpose-driven life.  So how did I get here? I'm glad you asked because today's episode is all about it! 
 
 
Top Takeaways: 
 
Keep the long-term vision in front of you and create boundaries to protect it.
 
Be prepared to say no to distractions and opportunities that don't align with your goals.
 
Recognize that the journey will be difficult, but don't give up.
 
Develop a battle plan for overcoming obstacles and staying focused on your goals.
 
Surround yourself with supportive people, including prayer warriors and mentors.
 
Get involved in a local church community to find like-minded individuals and support.
 
Use worship music as part of your battle plan for encouragement and motivation.
 
Don't be afraid to invest money in your dreams, even when it seems challenging.
 
Be willing to spend money to make money and understand the value of investing in your goals.
 
Remember that if you aren't willing to invest in your dream, it's unreasonable to expect others to do so.
 
 
 Also, remember it is important to Circle the Wagon and be proactive as you start walking these big dreams out. I have a great freebie that will help you assess and start preparing ahead of time for the resistance and chaos that could come when you start living fully for God. 
Protect your peace and download this freebie now: 
 
https://www.melissabatt.com/becoming-intentional
 
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21\\ Making Room for God: Unblocking the Path, Growing Closer to God, and Reading your Bible

This is an excerpt from a Masterclass, shared with Christian direct sellers, ministry leaders, and those who lead non-profits. We were talking about how to hear from God and read the Bible, and how to make room in our lives to let God lead. We have to obey and be still to be able to recognize God's voice and make time to spend with Him and read the Bible. We have the choice to make room for God or continue on the same path we are on. We need to be obedient, follow God's lead, and not get distracted by other things in order to do kingdom work and make disciples. We need to get rid of what's not serving us and the things getting in the way of our relationship with Jesus.
 
 
"Stop filling your mind with noise and crap and do the work that He has called you to do. Get yourself together and make room for His word, because the harvest is here and you are called to be a worker!"
 
In this episode, you will learn the following:
 
1. How do you develop a deepening relationship with Jesus?
 
2. What is the importance of knowing the sound of the Shepherd’s voice?
 
3. How can you use your struggles as a sacrifice to God?
 
 
4. How to start reading your Bible and actually understand it?Resources:Circle the Wagon & Becoming IntentionalOther episodes you'll enjoy:Doing the Uncomfortable, Asking Hard Questions, Trusting God
 
 
Getting Out of the Boat & God-Sized Dreams Connect with me: 
 
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Website: https://www.melissabatt.com/Loved this episode? Leave us a review and rating here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/priorities-on-purpose-leveling-up-in-life-business/id1652197036Chapter Summaries:
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Melissa Batt is the host of Priorities on Purpose, a podcast for overwhelmed direct sellers. As a Christian life and business coach, she wants to help you live with intention. She shares proven and simple strategies that will be sure to help live a fulfilled life.
 
 
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In this episode, hear a little bit of the real talk that happened during the Masterclass I did for the Success Lounge called Faith Blockers. Is your faith and your relationship with Jesus where you want it to be? And if not, what can you do about it?
 
 
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Melissa: God is calling you to kingdom work. You are to go and make disciples. The revival is coming. We need more workers. I challenge you to slow it down. Baby steps, one step at a time. Breakthrough is here.
 
 
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Sometimes it's okay to be on social media, shop, and all the things but we shouldn't use it for comfort.  God is the ultimate comforter.  He can comfort us as nobody else can. 
 
 
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Melissa: If you found value, I would love it if you could take a couple of seconds to leave me a quick review. Also, take a screenshot and share it on social media with your biggest AHA today. Until next time, friend, keep walking it out, one baby step at a time.
 
 

20\\ The Superwoman Cycle: What it is, why it is causing you to burn out, and how to stop letting it control your life for moms, direct sellers, and those struggling with depression and anxiety

Join me and my friend, Tori, as we discuss this phenomenon I refer to as the 'Superwoman Cycle'. It's where we are unintentionally trapped in a relentless cycle of overcommitting, exhausting ourselves, and feeling like a failure.  This cycle shows up in all parts of our lives including our businesses and home life.
 
The good news is you don't have to continue on this path. You will have to stop flying by the seat of your pants but it is absolutely possible to regain control and break out of the cycle. 
I'm a Christian life and business coach who helps overwhelmed direct sellers grow their income, audience, and influence without sacrificing their mental health and main priorities. This topic is right on point for all of us! 
We have to be disciplined in our approach to the cycle and learn to trust the process. When we do, we can realign our priorities, allowing us to lead a more sustainable and fulfilled life.In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. Breaking the Superwoman Cycle - Discover how to recognize and break the cycle of showing up inconsistent, exhausting yourself, and feeling like a failure. 
2. Setting Business Hours - Find out how to prioritize family and yourself while still running a successful business. All about my own personal fears when it came down to making this decision and why it was the best thing I've ever done (and in all areas of my life including business)!
 
3. How to do a Fruit of the Spirit Audit and God's promises - How to ask God to help you develop self-control and discipline. 
 
Get the waitlist for the next round of the Breakthrough Challenge: https://www.melissabatt.com/12-weeks-to-success
Resources:
 
Audit Your Life & Start Circling the Wagon
 
Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Episode 18: Doing Hard Things
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19\\ Building a Social Media Plan From Scratch, Utilizing Facebook and Instagram to Give Value & Build Authority as a Direct Seller and Coach

Liz Schlangen, an ambitious and determined single mom, faces a challenge to balance her taxing duties as a mother with her passionate goal to coach women on budgeting and make money over the next six weeks - a heartening journey of discovering her own potential.Here's what Liz Schlangen and I cover:
1. How can you use social media to build authority and be seen?
 
2. How can you leverage your direct sales business and parties AND set yourself apart from others in your industry? 
 
3. When and how to start building a social media platform using Facebook and Instagram in the next six weeks?
Liz Schlangen is a Breakthrough Challenge member and aspiring budget coach. She is passionate about helping women become better with their money and telling their money where it should go.
 
P.S. I'd love to partner with you to help you move forward! Our next Breakthrough Challenge starts in April. Get on the waitlist now so you can get started ASAP! 
 
Learn: www.melissabatt.com
 
Connect: realtalktribe@mail.com 
 
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18\\ Doing the uncomfortable, trusting God, and walking out hard things. Caregiving, acknowledging the elephants in the room, and asking God to grow us in the Fruits of the Spirit.

Where have I been?  Why hasn’t there been much activity from me?  What’s God been doing in my life?
 
Addressing it all in this episode. Lots of tears. Unscripted. A very casual conversation about making the decision to hit pause and help care for my Grandma who was nearing the end of her life. I talk about how God set me free of my crazy fears once again and helped me become more loving and grow in gentleness.  Other topics mentioned: 
 
Starting a conversation about uncomfortable topics (the elephant in the room) 
 
Leaning into the things that are typically left unsaid and saying them out loud 
 
Allowing God to set us free of our fears and trusting Him
 
Learning the difference between wisdom and fear & how to know what to do in those situations.
 
How to ask someone who is dying if they know where they are going when they die
 
Reminders to give yourself permission to hit pause every once in a while when you need to process hard things. Most of the time we choose to neglect our main priorities because it feels safer and they will understand. Be intentional and live with your priorities on purpose. 
 
P.S. The feedback from those who watched this FB LIVE tells me this episode is worth the extra time and the not-so-great sound quality. I hope you can listen and apply some of what I have been doing to your own life. You can do hard things. And, it doesn't have to feel equipped and confident in it. Trust God to give you the supernatural strength to pull off whatever it is He is calling you to do. He will do it! 
 
And, of course, I'd love to partner with you to help you move forward! Our next Breakthrough Challenge starts in April. Get on the waitlist now so you can get started ASAP! 
 
Learn: www.melissabatt.com
 
Connect: realtalktribe@mail.com 
 
Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissabattofficial/
 
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Get the waitlist for the next round of the Breakthrough Challenge: https://www.melissabatt.com/12-weeks-to-success
 
 

17\\ Get your time back as a direct seller: 3 steps to take, stay focused and succeed using business systems

Are you a direct seller looking to streamline your processes so you can quiet the noise and breath again? Are you overwhelmed and feeling like there just isn't enough time in the day for you to be who you know you are supposed to be?  If so, you’re not alone. Today we’re joined by Wendy Thomas, a mama, encourager, advocate, and coach who once found herself in the same situation. She was a stay-at-home mom, barely staying active in her direct sales business, and had no goals or ambitions to do much with her business as a Thirty-One Consultant. She only knew she needed to get out of the house!
When working with Wendy, it was clear that we needed to do life stuff before we could focus on business things. Through hard work, focus, and staying the course, Wendy managed to turn her business around and create systems to streamline things.
In our Breakthrough Challenge Spotlight today, we will explore Wendy’s story and learn how she did it. I’ll outline how Wendy Thomas managed to create a system for her business that brought her consistency, healthy habits, and systems. If you are ready to learn more, let's get to it. About Wendy ThomasIntroducing Wendy Thomas - a mama, encourager, advocate, and coach. She has a coaching business that helps mamas who are raising a child with a diagnosis. Wendy is no stranger to the struggles of being a stay at home mom, as she has experienced it herself. After her youngest child received a medical diagnosis, she realized her job was to help other mamas navigate the journey of raising a child with a diagnosis. Wendy's journey began when she was just a hobbyist in the direct sales world. Through conversations and coaching, Wendy was able to open her eyes to the possibilities and opportunities of running a sustainable business. With my help, Wendy also addressed her trauma and fears related to an abusive relationship from her past. Why is it important to build an effective system for your business?In order to get your time back as a direct sales consultant or network marketer, you must streamline your processes, increase efficiency, and get in front of new people. A well-designed system provides a framework to keep all the balls in the air, keep your main priorities first, and track performance.  Systems also allow you to save time, energy, and brain power by reducing redundant tasks and ensuring that the most important tasks are completed quickly and accurately. When you show up and do things consistently it will also build trust in your brand, identify problem areas, and help you focus on the things that matter most for your business and life goals. Here are the steps you need to follow:1. Taking Baby Steps2. Staying Laser Focused3. Continuing on the Path1. Taking Baby StepsTaking Baby Steps Taking baby steps is a great way to start on the path to achieving your dreams. The first step is to break down your goal into smaller, achievable tasks. By breaking down the goal into smaller tasks, you can start by taking one small step each day that will bring you closer to your goal. For example, if you want to start a business, the first step would be to consider your options. What kind of business would you like to be a part of?  Another way to take baby steps is to use a habit tracker. A habit tracker allows you to track your progress and plan out the specific steps you need to take each day. This will help you stay focused and motivated. It also helps to have a support system that can provide you with motivation and accountability. Having someone to cheer you on and push you to keep going will help you reach your goal. Finally, having patience and persistence is key. It's important to remember that success doesn't happen overnight. You will experience setbacks and challenges along the way, so it's important to stay focused and keep moving forward. Taking baby steps and not giving up will help you eventually reach your goal.It's also important to take time after each baby step to evaluate your progress. What worked? What didn't? What could you do differently next time?  Doing this exercise will help you keep moving forward instead of accidentally getting into the 'check the box' and autopilot mode.  It also helps you to recognize and celebrate your successes.
2. Staying Laser FocusedStaying laser focused is essential to having a successful life and business. For Wendy, it meant committing to the mega party and continuing to do the same thing even when the results weren't immediate. It also meant setting aside her fear of being visible and facing her trauma head-on. Once she was able to do that, she was able to move forward and start seeing results. She also had the support of the Success Lounge group membership. All members of my membership are provided with scripts and ideas. This gave her the baseline she needed to start creating her own content. She was able to recognize the noise in her head, and the thoughts that were holding her back. By recognizing these, she was able to move past them and start taking the steps necessary to create her business. By staying the course and staying laser-focused, she was able to achieve the success she never thought was possible.To stay laser-focused, Wendy also took the time to prioritize her daily tasks. She knew that she couldn’t do everything at once, so she made sure to focus on the most important tasks that would bring her closer to her goal of a successful business. By dedicating her time and energy to the most important tasks, she was able to achieve her goals faster. 3. Continuing on the PathOnce Melissa and Wendy began working together, Melissa helped Wendy to overcome the trauma of a past relationship, which had been holding her back from moving forward. Wendy then began to realize that she could make her direct sales business a real business, and not just a hobby. She started by committing to a “mega party” and remained consistent, despite not seeing immediate success. This helped Wendy to stay focused on her goals and not be distracted by shiny new things. She also had access to resources, such as a “success lounge” with scripts to help her become more comfortable with her business. Ultimately, Wendy was able to stay the course and continue on the path to success. Through this process, Wendy was able to overcome her fears and make her business a reality.Wendy was also dedicated to learning and growing as an entrepreneur. She attended our first Success Lounge Intensive and showed up to every masterclass, group coaching session, and 1 on 1 session to gain knowledge from other successful entrepreneurs. Wendy was also willing to take risks in order to grow her business. She took the initiative to close her Facebook Customer VIP Group, created a website, which enabled her to reach even more customers, and she began to build a network of loyal customers who continue to support her. Wendy was able to take her business to the next level. She was able to stay focused on her goals and was not afraid to take risks and try new things. Through her dedication and hard work, Wendy was able to turn her direct sales business into a successful venture.This episode is a great example of how staying focused and taking baby steps can help you achieve success. By taking consistent action, having a support system, and staying laser-focused, you can overcome the fear and trauma holding you back, find your voice, and be who God called you to be.And, of course, I'd love to partner with you to help you move forward to live the life of your dreams. Our next Breakthrough Challenge starts in April. Get on the waitlist now so you can get started ASAP! 
 
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16\\ Taking your thoughts captive to love your spouse, adding value in your marriage, and not depending on your spouse to keep you happy

Part 2: When the enemy comes after your marriage.Do you feel overwhelmed and disconnected from your spouse? Does it feel like you can't communicate without a fight? Are you struggling with the hurt of betrayal because trust was broken? 
 
Check out this episode to learn multiple ways to be more proactive in protecting your marriage. The enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy but we don't have to give in and let him.
 
Natasha Pharis, the author of Hey Honey! Conversations with God to a Better Marriage gives powerful tips and shares personal stories on how God helped her become a better wife and have a stronger, healthier marriage.
 
Natasha is an author and speaker who has experienced God's transformative power in her own marriage. She has learned to trust in Him through difficult times and has used her story to help other women in their relationships.If you've been feeling this, then my latest episode of Priorities on Purpose with Natasha is for you.
 
 
Additional book mentioned to help you understand the enemy's role in your life: Fervent: A Woman's Battle Plan to Serious, Specific and Strategic Prayer by Priscilla Shirer
 
 
Episodes you'll enjoy:
 
Listen to Part 1 if you missed it: Episode 15 Part 1: Protecting Your Marriage
 
Episode 02:  Create a Plan and Maximize Your Time to Prioritize What Matters Most
 
 
Episode 07: Get out of the boat: Taking steps to live out your God-Sized dream
 
 
Want to work with me? I'd love to help you!
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15\\ Preparing and fighting back when the enemy comes to attack your marriage: unforgiveness, porn addictions, and trusting God with it all.:

After discovering her husband's addiction to pornography, Natasha Pharis surrenders her marriage to the Lord and embarks on a journey of transformation, guided by God's call to honor and serve her husband.You will learn:
1. How did Natasha Pharis learn to let go and trust the Lord, when faced with a difficult situation in her marriage? 
 
2. What powerful changes occurred in Natasha's marriage due to her choosing to deepen her relationship with the Lord?
 
3. How did Natasha change as she chose to pursue the Lord instead of living for instant gratification?
 
Natasha Pharis is an author and speaker who has experienced God's transformative power in her own marriage. She has learned to trust in Him through difficult times and has used her story to help other women in their relationships.
 
 
You can find her journal book here: Hey Honey! Conversations with God to a Better Marriage by Natasha Pharis
 
Episodes you'll enjoy:
Episode 02 Maximize Your Time to Prioritize What Matters Most
Episode 09: Three things to know about creating income & impact using your God-sized dream
 
Episode 13: How to move forward when you aren't okay 
 
Want to work with me? I'd love to help you!
Check out my website at www.melissabatt.com or email me at realtalktribe@mail.com.
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