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Abuse, Addiction & a Cry for Help: How God Met Christy at Her Lowest Point {Part 1 of 3}

In this powerful episode of Priorities on Purpose, Melissa Batt sits down with Christy, whose life was marked by deep trauma, addiction, and cycles of generational pain—until God met her in the middle of her darkest moment.
From surviving childhood abuse and the broken foster care system to struggling with addiction and searching for love in all the wrong places, Christy shares how Jesus radically turned her life around in 2022. This is part one of her testimony, where she opens up about the years of hurt that led her to cry out to God—and how that desperate prayer began her journey to healing.
If you’ve ever felt too far gone, unworthy, or unsure if God could still use you, this story is for you. Christy’s transparency and transformation will stir your heart and remind you that nothing is impossible with God.
Key Takeaways:
[00:02] - How Melissa and Christy met at church in Indiana
[02:31] - Christy opens up about generational trauma and childhood abuse
[04:31] - How alcohol and drugs played a role in her father’s and her own story
[06:16] - Foster care, broken systems, and how trauma shaped her
[09:41] - The relationships and addiction cycles that followed
[14:22] - Why she turned to men for love and how her childhood shaped that pattern
[23:31] - The moment in 2022 that changed everything—her cry to God
[25:25] - Sobriety, surrender, and her first days of walking with Jesus
[29:06] - Learning to pray, study the Bible, and start healing
[34:56] - Confessions, apologies, and reconciling with her daughters
[38:44] - The hands and feet of Jesus through her ex’s family
[43:15] - Finding a church, getting baptized, and standing strong in her faith
 
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Fear of Being Misunderstood: Getting to the Root of a Wound That’s Been Holding You Back

In this raw and unfiltered episode of Priorities on Purpose, Melissa Batt opens up about a deeply personal revelation—how a recent church message triggered a decades-old wound rooted in the fear of being misunderstood. As a Christian Life Coach and Faith Mentor, Melissa walks listeners through the real-time process of digging deep, journaling with God, and uncovering the root of emotional pain that’s been quietly influencing her ministry, conversations, and confidence.
Through tears, prayers, and Scripture, Melissa shares how this fear has shown up in her life through oversharing, people-pleasing, and hesitating to take bold action. She also explores how God used a painful moment from the past to lovingly discipline her and realign her heart with His purpose.
This episode will speak to anyone who has ever felt silenced, misjudged, or unsure about stepping into their calling. If you’ve been wrestling with emotional triggers, fear of man, or a need to be fully understood, this message is for you.
Key Takeaways:
[00:00] – Why This Episode is Unscripted & RawMelissa shares her hesitation to hit record and why this message couldn’t wait—God asked her to share before the healing was “complete.”
[03:04] – Triggered at Church: What HappenedShe describes how a message at church stirred something deep and how God used that moment to point her toward healing.
[08:24] – Recognizing the Real Issue: Fear of Being MisunderstoodMelissa explains the difference between being offended, convicted, or triggered—and how this moment exposed a fear she didn’t know was still present.
[14:13] – The Root Memory: 20 Years Ago in Church MinistryA painful church encounter from two decades ago resurfaces, revealing where the fear of being misunderstood began.
[17:34] – A Journal Entry with God & the Book of JoelMelissa reads from her journal and shares Scripture that God used to confirm His love, discipline, and restoration in her life.
[23:43] – How Fear of Man and Control Go Hand in HandShe vulnerably shares how this fear impacts her ministry decisions and how she’s learning to surrender the outcome to God.
[29:58] – The Beauty of God’s DisciplineMelissa reflects on how God allowed her to be “sat down” for a season—not to shame her, but to protect and grow her.
[33:15] – A Prayer for YouShe closes the episode with a heartfelt prayer for anyone walking around with emotional wounds, asking God to bring clarity, healing, and courage to take the next step.
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What It Really Means to Love Like Jesus: How to Show God’s Love in Real Life

In this episode of Priorities on Purpose, Melissa Batt shares a heartfelt voice memo-style message that explores what it really means to love like Jesus—especially when the people around us are hurting emotionally, spiritually, or relationally.
Inspired by 1 John 3 and reflections from the book Ekklesia, Melissa digs into the practical side of love and challenges us to stop thinking love is just about giving money or saying the right things. Instead, she reveals what it looks like to truly be the hands and feet of Jesus in our everyday lives—whether through encouraging words, simple acts of kindness, or choosing grace over offense.
If you’ve ever wondered how to live out your faith in a real, intentional way, this episode will leave you convicted and encouraged.
Key Takeaways:
[00:00] – Laying Down Our Lives Like Jesus DidMelissa opens the episode with 1 John 3:16 and asks the question: What does it actually look like to lay down your life for others?
[02:32] – Redefining PovertyShe highlights that poverty isn’t just financial—many people are emotionally and spiritually poor, and we’re called to see and serve them, too.
[04:55] – Meeting Practical NeedsWhether it’s offering a meal, a kind word, or simply your time, love shows up through action, not just speech.
[06:31] – Navigating Offense with GraceMelissa shares a personal story about miscommunication and how we can assume the best in others—even when it’s hard.
[08:56] – Letting Go of Being MisunderstoodNot everyone will “get you,” and that’s okay. Melissa reminds us of the importance of releasing control and embracing peace.
[10:49] – Be the One Who Takes ActionDon’t wait on your church or others to step up. If you see a need, meet it. Love is a verb.
[12:58] – Hospitality Without the PressureMelissa encourages us to practice hospitality without perfection and challenges listeners to examine the root of any shame holding them back.
[14:15] – Final Encouragement + Coaching InvitationIf you’re ready to stop delaying the life God has called you to, Melissa invites you to reach out for 1:1 coaching and faith mentoring.
📚 Resources Mentioned in This Episode:
The Bible
Verses mentioned: 1 John 3:16–19, Titus 3:1–15, and Romans 12
Book: Ekklesia by Ed Silvoso
Melissa references this book when discussing different types of poverty—not just financial, but emotional and spiritual poverty as well.
 
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Fake Comfort, Real Struggles: Why You Feel Stuck & What to Do About It

Do you find yourself endlessly scrolling, online shopping, binge-watching TV, or chasing success—and still feeling stuck, anxious, and unfulfilled?
In this episode of Priorities on Purpose, Christian Life Coaches Melissa Batt and Joy from The Journey to Becoming get real about the hidden habits keeping you from peace. They unpack the power of dopamine, what “deep fakes” look like in your everyday life, and how escaping your reality may be the very thing keeping you from healing.
From emotional avoidance to over-functioning, they break down the unseen struggles that aren’t just normal—they’re holding you back. You’ll learn how to trade fake comfort for real restoration through practical tools, faith-based mindset shifts, and one baby step at a time.
If you’re tired of numbing out and want to reset your life with intention, this episode is the wake-up call you didn’t know you needed.
 
Key Takeaways:
[00:00] - Meet Joy: A Christian Life Coach with a Bold MessageMelissa introduces Joy and why this conversation is different from anything you've heard before.
[03:53] - When Discipline Isn’t EnoughWhy your motivation fades and how unseen emotional patterns are sabotaging your growth.
[09:41] - Deep Fakes, Dopamine, and Escaping RealityFrom social media to overworking, Joy explains the “fake dopamine” you’ve been unknowingly addicted to—and how to replace it.
[20:15] - When Your Body Breaks Down from AvoidanceMelissa shares how emotional escape showed up physically in her life—and what it took to recognize the warning signs.
[30:34] - Creating a Healthy Dopamine MenuDiscover how to retrain your brain with God-honoring habits that bring real joy and freedom.
[37:57] - Seeds, Journaling, and Seeing God’s Hand at WorkWhy small, unseen steps matter—and how God is faithful to multiply what you sow.
[44:04] - You Don’t Need to Settle AnymoreJoy closes with biblical truth and encouragement for anyone who feels like it’s “too late” to change.
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Podcast: The Journey to Becoming
Instagram: joyfulfit_life
 

When Anxiety Hits Out of Nowhere: Faith-Filled Tools to Find Peace in the Panic

In this episode of Priorities on Purpose, Christian Life Coach Melissa Batt shares how to navigate situational anxiety that shows up unexpectedly—whether in the middle of the night, during a tense conversation, or out of nowhere in your day.
This isn’t about long-term anxiety disorders. It’s about those moments when fear takes over, your chest tightens, and you feel like you can’t breathe. Melissa walks you through practical, faith-based strategies that have helped her personally, especially when traditional tools like breathing exercises fall short.
You’ll discover how to use worship, Scripture, prayer, and community support to calm your spirit and regain clarity. She even shares the importance of eliminating specific triggers from your life that could be feeding your anxiety without you realizing it.
Whether you’ve felt panic rise in the dark or wrestled with racing thoughts at the most inconvenient times, this episode offers a fresh perspective, spiritual truth, and real help.
Key Takeaways:
[00:02] – Situational Anxiety DefinedMelissa explains the difference between general anxiety and sudden, fear-filled moments that catch you off guard.
[00:13] – What This Episode Won’t CoverInstead of breathing or grounding techniques, Melissa shares spiritual tools believers have access to through Jesus.
[00:15] – Worship is Your WeaponWorship music trumps worry. Melissa offers a playlist of songs that speak truth and peace into chaotic moments.
[00:23] – Hold Your Bible—Even if You Can’t Read ItJust having the Word of God nearby can shift the atmosphere. Declaring Scripture out loud brings peace and truth to the forefront.
[00:30] – Powerful Verses to DeclareMelissa shares Psalms, Exodus, and 1 Peter verses that have anchored her when she couldn’t catch her breath.
[00:38] – Cast Your Anxiety, Don’t Clutch ItHolding onto fear denies God’s love and power. Learn how to trade anxious cares for His affectionate care.
[00:50] – When You Can’t Pray—Just Say His NameIf the only word you can get out is “Jesus,” it’s enough. His name alone carries power and peace.
[00:55] – Why You Need a Praying CommunityHaving trusted friends who will intercede for you—even without details—makes all the difference.
[01:01] – Three Things to Eliminate for Less PanicMelissa shares tangible triggers to avoid: scary media, occult influences, and late-night food that doesn’t sit well.
[01:10] – Bonus Tools: Anoint Your HomeFrom writing Scripture on walls to praying over every room, Melissa shares powerful practices to protect your peace.
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Saying Yes to God: How to Overcome Fear and Step Out in Faith with Tori Shirah

In this episode of Priorities on Purpose, I sit down with Tori Shirah, a former coaching client, powerhouse entrepreneur, and co-host of The Unlikely Housewives podcast. Tori shares her journey of saying yes to God, even when it felt scary, overwhelming, or completely uncertain. From launching a successful podcast to hosting a major fundraiser in just 60 days for Seth Gruber, her story is a powerful reminder that obedience leads to unexpected blessings.
We dive into:✅ Overcoming fear and stepping out in faith✅ How small acts of obedience open big doors✅ The struggle of balancing family, business, and God’s calling✅ Why success isn’t about worldly achievements but about trusting God’s plan
If you’ve ever felt stuck because you’re hesitating to say yes to what God is asking of you, this episode is for you!
Key Takeaways:
[00:02] - Welcome & IntroductionMelissa introduces Tori Shira and shares how their coaching journey led to unexpected opportunities.
[03:14] - The Power of Saying Yes to GodTori reflects on how her willingness to follow God’s leading, even when it felt crazy, resulted in incredible blessings.
[06:30] - Overcoming Fear and Taking a Leap of FaithMelissa shares her personal story of stepping away from direct sales and trusting God’s provision, even when it didn’t make sense.
[14:07] - Hosting a Major Event with No ExperienceTori walks through the moment she sent an email that changed everything and how God opened doors for her to raise $70,000 for a nonprofit in just 60 days.
[18:24] - When God Asks You to Do Something UncomfortableFrom handing out invitations at a stoplight to approaching strangers, Tori shares how saying yes to small things led to big breakthroughs.
[26:01] - Recognizing What We Hold Onto Too TightlyMelissa and Tori discuss the tension between control, comfort, and trusting God with our desires, from business decisions to family time.
[33:13] - Be Where Your Feet Are: Trusting God's TimingMelissa shares the lesson God has been teaching her about being present and how that has reshaped her approach to business and family.
[39:41] - Walking on Water: What Peter’s Story Teaches UsHow stepping out in faith not only impacts you but also inspires those watching from the boat.
[43:00] - What Real Success Looks LikeA conversation about how success isn’t measured in money or status, but in obedience and alignment with God’s plan.
[47:48] - The Hesitation Before Saying YesTori shares her initial doubts about coaching and how it became a pivotal part of her faith journey.
[50:44] - Final Thoughts & Call to ActionMelissa and Tori encourage listeners to embrace the adventure of obedience and trust that God is in control.
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Podcast: The Unlikely Housewives
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How to Lead Well Without Burning Out: Finding Balance in Faith, Family & Church with Pastor Kevin Moore re

In this episode of Priorities on Purpose, Pastor Kevin Moore shares his wisdom on servant leadership, balancing ministry with family life, and staying spiritually aligned. With over 20 years in ministry, Pastor Kevin has dedicated his life to equipping leaders and helping churches thrive.
Together, we dive into:✅ The importance of servant leadership and how to steward influence well.✅ The tension of work-life balance—when to step up, when to step back, and how to stay healthy in ministry.✅ How to overcome feeling stuck by identifying your life lanes and aligning them with God’s purpose.✅ The reality of burnout in serving—knowing when to take a break and when to press forward.✅ Practical wisdom for leading well, both at home and in ministry, without losing yourself in the process.
Whether you’re in ministry, leadership, or simply navigating overwhelm in daily life, this conversation is filled with wisdom, encouragement, and practical strategies to help you move forward with clarity.
🔹 Key Takeaways:
[00:02] - Meet Pastor Kevin Moore & the impact he made in my life
[06:59] - Servant leadership vs. dictatorship—why leadership starts with serving
[18:56] - Are you living for the replaceable or the irreplaceable? A powerful mindset shift
[24:10] - The wagon wheel approach to balance—how to keep God at the center
[33:11] - When to serve and when to sit—how to know when it’s time to step back
[36:50] - Getting unstuck—asking yourself, “Who am I? Why am I here? Where am I going?”
[42:43] - The importance of scheduling what matters most
Resources & Links Mentioned:
📚 Book Recommendation from Pastor Kevin:
The Effective Executive by Peter Drucker – A must-read on leadership and productivity. Find it on Amazon
📖 More About Pastor Kevin Moore:
Noble County Community Church (Indiana-based church focused on discipleship and leadership development) – Visit the website
Grow Moore Coaching (Helping pastors and church teams with planting, revitalization, and leadership training) – Learn more here
🎧 Grab your notebook—this episode is packed with golden nuggets of wisdom!
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The 12-Week Success Plan: How to Set Goals & Actually Follow Through

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Struggling to follow through on goals? Feeling stuck in survival mode? You’re not alone—but you don’t have to stay there.
In this final day of Operation Reset, we’re mapping out a 12-Week Success Plan to help you break free from being overwhelmed, set intentional goals, and finally take action.
💡 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✔️ How to set realistic goals that actually work for your life✔️ The biggest reasons goals fail—and how to stop self-sabotaging✔️ Eliminate, Delegate, Automate: A step-by-step strategy to take back your time✔️ Why "flipping the script" on negative thoughts is essential for lasting change✔️ The key to sustainable success (hint: it’s not about doing more!)
🔥 This episode is for you if:
You set goals but never seem to follow through
You feel overwhelmed, stretched too thin, or unsure where to start
You’re ready to stop making excuses and start making progress
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How to Reclaim Your Time, Energy & Peace Without Burning Out

Welcome to Day 4 of Operation Reset!
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Are you constantly running on empty, trying to keep up with life’s demands, endless to-do lists, and obligations? You’re not alone. Many high-achievers and busy women feel stuck in reactive mode, juggling too much and struggling to find balance and peace.
💡 In this episode, we’re talking about:✔️ The 3-step method to reclaim your time: Eliminate, Delegate, Automate✔️ Why feeling overwhelmed isn’t just about being "too busy"—and what to do instead✔️ How to stop running on fumes and create a sustainable rhythm that lasts✔️ Why real success is about sustainability, not just productivity✔️ What’s secretly draining your energy—and how to fix it
🔥 If your life feels like one fire after another, it’s time for a reset. Today, I’m challenging you to take inventory of your most valuable resources—your time, energy, peace, and money—so you can stop spinning your wheels and start living with intention.
🚨 Struggling to set healthy boundaries?🚨 Feeling like you have no time, yet still not making progress?🚨 Worried that slowing down means falling behind?
If you answered yes to any of these, this is the exact kind of work I do with my life coaching clients. We break the cycle of burnout and build a life that’s sustainable, purposeful, and aligned with God’s plan for you.
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Reset Your Space, Reset Your Mind: 10 Simple Decluttering Strategies

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Does your home feel overwhelming? Clutter isn’t just physical—it’s mental. When your space is messy, your mind feels scattered, and you waste time searching for things, procrastinating, or feeling stuck. Brain fog is a real thing!
It’s time for a reset. In today’s episode of Priorities on Purpose, I’m sharing 10 powerful decluttering strategies that will help you create a peaceful, organized space so you can focus on what truly matters.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:
✅ The real reason clutter keeps you stuck (and how to break free)✅ How a cluttered home affects your brain, energy, and mental clarity✅ 10 decluttering strategies to simplify your space without being overwhelmed✅ The best place to start if you feel paralyzed by clutter✅ How to stay organized long-term and avoid falling back into chaos✅ Why decluttering = saving time, money, and mental energy
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