Priorities on Purpose: Get Out of Survival Mode, Eliminate Distractions, Find Your Focus, and Grow With Jesus

Do you love well? And more talk on what God says about love.

In this episode of Priorities on Purpose, Christian Life Coach and Faith Mentor, Melissa Batt discusses the importance of loving as described in 1 Corinthians 13:4.
She emphasizes that love should be patient, kind, not envious or boastful, not proud, not dishonoring others, not self-seeking, not easily angered, and keeps no record of wrongs.
 
She suggests that these characteristics should define our love for others. She also encourages listeners to replace the word "love" with their name in these verses as a self-assessment tool.
 
Melissa also shares her struggles with keeping no record of wrongs in her marriage and other relationships. She also discusses her journey of learning to speak up and then learning to keep quiet when necessary. She encourages listeners to ask God for help in areas they struggle with, emphasizing that they don't have to do it on their own. The speaker also shares her experiences with overcoming fear and discomfort, such as flying alone. She concludes by asking listeners for feedback and topic suggestions for future episodes.
 
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When You Say Yes, What Are You Saying No To?

Whenever you say yes to someone or something, you are also saying no to something else. If you always say yes, how will you prioritize the things that truly matter to you?
Today you get a BTS (behind the scenes) of a laser coaching session I did with someone participating inside of my free 12 Weeks to Success Workshop. Sonya has gigantic goals and knows where she wants to go. However, her constant need to say yes to everything and over-committing leads her to neglect her well-being and limits her time to work on her God-sized dreams. During this laser coaching session, I work with her on setting boundaries and rebalancing her life to prioritize what matters most.
Some of her goals include becoming a life coach, creating a course to help women grow in their relationship with Jesus, and writing a book. This episode is a great example of what it is like to work with me. If you are a high achiever, constantly biting off more than you can chew, love to volunteer, and are always known as the 'yes girl', then get a pen and paper; you'll want to take notes.
In this episode, you will be challenged to:
Understand how important prioritizing self-care and your well-being is in your daily routines.
Discover the profound impact of balance and boundary-setting for your daily peace.
Realize the consequences of saying 'yes' to all and its influence on others.
Grasp the underestimated importance of stillness and reflection in goal mapping.
Take time to do a life audit to see how you are spending your time and why.
Prioritize your goals - If you're struggling to figure out your goals or have trouble following through on them, this episode is precisely what you need. It will challenge you to reassess your goals and provide guidance on how to focus on what truly matters.
My special guest is Sonya Smody from Set4Life.
She's a high-achieving single mom who navigates life with resilience and unwavering determination. Continually pushing the boundaries of her comfort zone, Sonya knows her calling and purpose. However, without realizing it, she often overcommits herself leading her to self-sabotage.
The Oxygen Mask ParableYou've probably heard the safety announcement about securing your own oxygen mask before helping others on flights, right? It's a brilliant metaphor to explain why personal care matters. If we can't breathe, we can't help others breathe. This principle applies to our day-to-day lives as well. For those of us who struggle to see our worth the way God does, this lesson is hard to learn and will lead to old habits if we aren't careful.
The Power of Moving BackwardsOur culture often romanticizes the notion of always moving forward and depicts taking even a single step back as a failure. But sometimes, you have to go backward to leap forward. It's like drawing back an arrow before letting it fly. Indeed, revisiting past experiences, re-evaluating priorities, and resetting the course of life can seem daunting. But it can also create necessary growing spaces and ultimately leads to healing if you allow God to help. Sonya openly discussed her fear of going backward in the podcast.
The Struggle with PrioritiesYou know that feeling when you keep piling on more than you can physically carry? Well, that's what we're talking about. A lot of people, just like Sonya, get caught up in a whirlwind of responsibilities. They believe they can handle everything that comes their way, from personal commitments to endless volunteering opportunities. Unfortunately, it becomes a vicious cycle of always saying yes, leading them to overlook their health and well-being. As one might imagine, this imbalance can take a massive toll on overall happiness and lead to long-term physical and mental exhaustion. From Sonya's perspective, her constant yes attitude initially seemed like a noble trait, one which made lending a helping hand to others a no-brainer. But, it came at a major cost.
The Martha SyndromeIn the biblical account of Martha and Mary, Martha was so wrapped up in serving guests that she missed out on the moment's joy. People, like Sonya, who find it hard to say no, often end up being the 'Martha.' They keep volunteering, serving, and giving until they are spent. While giving back and volunteering are valuable qualities, it's equally important to find space to be still and maintain main priorities. During the podcast, Melissa used the story of Mary & Martha to provide Sonya with a different perspective on her situation. Sonya, as an inherent doer and giver, admitted to being a 'Martha.' The challenge for Sonya now is to balance her 'Martha'-like willingness to serve with the heart posture of Mary.
 
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Setting Boundaries: How to stop feeling so exhausted, anxious and get your time back

In this episode of Priorities On Purpose, Christian Life Coach Melissa discusses the importance of setting boundaries in life. She defines boundaries as a line that defines the limits of an area and emphasizes that humans are not limitless in their resources, hence the need for boundaries. She argues that boundaries are necessary to protect our time, energy, and other resources, prevent burnout, and resentment, and live out our priorities.
Melissa also highlights the dangers of not setting boundaries, including frustration and the inability to accomplish God's work. She encourages listeners to audit their lives, identify areas of lack, and consider what it would look like to not struggle in those areas. Melissa also recommends the book "Boundaries" by Dr. Henry Cloud for further reading on the topic.
 
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How well do you know God? And other things you should know as a Christian.

In this episode of Priorities On Purpose, Christian Life Coach & Faith Mentor, Melissa Batt dives into a topic close to the heart: the distinction between knowing God and merely knowing about God. She highlights the significance of fostering a personal connection with God, rather than just following rituals or traditions.
Melissa encourages listeners to nurture this relationship through prayer, Bible study, and surrounding themselves with spiritual mentors. As the episode wraps up, she suggests "None Like Him" by Jen Wilkin as a valuable resource for delving deeper into understanding God's unique qualities.
 
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Mom Life, Pivots, & Overcoming Fear of Judgement

Stop worrying about what people think when things don't go as planned. This episode is all about mom life, pivots, fear, and Cara Pinder's new children's book about the tooth fairy. It's also a great episode for those who have big dreams and want to achieve all the things. 
In this episode, Melissa hosts longtime friend and author of children's book, The Tooth Fairy's Stars, Cara Pinder. Melissa and Cara discuss the journey of embracing change, following one's calling, and overcoming the fear of judgment from others. Cara reflects on her path from being a hairdresser to direct seller to becoming a published author.
When you know you've given it your all, you cannot ever be down on yourself. You didn't fail. If you gave it your all, you gave it your all. And I always say, do your best, give God the rest. He decides what He does with the outcome. Surrender. And trust. You don't have to carry that heavy burden. -Melissa Batt
In this episode, you will be challenged to:
Embrace your own journeys, recognizing that purpose often emerges from unexpected experiences.
Invest in yourself by continuing to learn and grow
Express gratitude for your accomplishments and remember to celebrate them before moving to the next thing
Recognize that pursuing goals may require sacrifice, vulnerability and discomfort at times
 
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Numbing Out: What is it? Are you doing it? And why is it dangerous to your faith and relationships?

In the latest episode of "Priorities on Purpose," host Melissa Batt dives into the topic of "numbing out" – disconnecting from our emotions and experiences. She breaks down how this coping mechanism can be a lifesaver during tough times, but also cautions against letting it become a long-term habit that holds us back.
Melissa paints a picture of the various ways we might numb out, from endlessly scrolling through social media to binge-watching TV, overworking, overeating, or turning to substances like alcohol or drugs. She urges us to recognize when use these behaviors to dodge difficult feelings or situations. She also reminds us that seeking support from God and the people around us can be an important step toward healing and growth.
Ultimately, Christian Life Coach, Melissa Batt leaves us with a message of hope – that facing our struggles head-on, with the support of God and our loved ones, can pave the way for profound personal transformation.
If you struggle in this area and are ready to take action to overcome it, don't hesitate to reach out to Melissa. She offers complimentary consultations and would love to discuss it further.
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What does God's word say about wasting time, energy, and other important resources

In this episode, Christian Life Coach and faith mentor, Melissa discusses Bible verses from Luke chapter 1, verses 34 and 35, which warn against the dangers of squandering resources and being weighed down by anxieties. She challenges listeners to evaluate their lives and identify areas where they may be squandering their time, energy, or resources. She also encourages them to live intentionally and purposefully, rather than merely existing or surviving.
Melissa Batt, host of the podcast Priorities on Purpose, discusses the importance of intentional living and mental health for women. She emphasizes the need to break free from the cycle of numbing out, scrolling social media, and feeling overwhelmed by to-do lists. She encourages listeners to live with purpose and intention, with Jesus at the center of their lives. 
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Living with Intention: Identifying what works and what doesn't work in your life

In "Priorities on Purpose," Melissa Batt, the host and Christian life coach, delves into her approach to coaching and empowering women to lead intentional lives. She guides listeners through the core aspects of her coaching process: identifying what's working and what's not, setting specific goals, crafting actionable plans, and maintaining weekly accountability.
Throughout her coaching journey, Batt emphasizes the central role of Jesus in her practice, often incorporating prayer and spiritual guidance into her sessions. She acknowledges the varying durations of client engagements, highlighting that while some may benefit from ongoing support, others may achieve their objectives relatively quickly.
For those curious about her coaching style, she offers complimentary consultations, inviting potential clients to explore how her services can align with their needs and aspirations. Join Melissa Batt on "Priorities on Purpose" as she empowers women to take deliberate steps towards their goals with faith and intention.
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Questions you must ask yourself every year to make the most of your life lessons

Melissa Batt, host of the podcast Priorities on Purpose, discusses the importance of intentional living, mental health, and personal growth with a Christian perspective. She encourages listeners to reflect on their past year by identifying five positive experiences, three negative experiences, and the biggest lessons learned.
She also prompts listeners to consider what they want to do more of in the coming year. Melissa shares her own experiences and lessons, emphasizing the importance of obedience to God, the value of transitions, and the need to be present in the moment.
 
 
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5 Must Read Books: For women who want to become more intentional in life and with Jesus

If you are a woman who has been through hard things that have left you feeling angry, resentful, or struggling with unforgiveness, and you want to deepen your relationship with Jesus, check out this episode.
Melissa Batt, the host of the podcast Priorities on Purpose, discusses five books that have significantly impacted her life and helped her live more intentionally. Each book has helped her in different ways, from improving her prayer life to learning to rest and put Jesus first in areas where she was holding onto anger & unforgiveness. She also mentions a bonus book, "Get Out of Your Head" by Jennie Allen, which deals with managing toxic thoughts. Melissa encourages her listeners to read these books if they are struggling with anxiety or feel themselves living on autopilot going through the motions. 
The books are: 
Fervent by Priscilla Shirer 
Becoming Brave by  Tracey Mitchell
The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer
Rhythms of Renewal by  Rebekah Lyons
Jesus Over Everything by  Lisa Whittle.
 
 
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